If your good in bed does that make him love you more?

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If let’s say you ride him so good does that make a husband of boyfriend fall in love with you more. I’m just curious because my husband smiles when I ride him and he was so much nicer to me the next day. He told me once that he loves me because I treat him good in bed and I love him and treat him good.

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Nah he still gon’ cheat

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Idk why all these ladies are acting like physical touch isn’t a love language. Making love is the ultimate in physical touch. I won’t say it’ll make a man love you but it definitely reinforces and strengthens the bonds of the relationship for many people.

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That's honestly so sad. 
If your marriage and love is based on sex, he needs to get a prostitute, not a wife

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Looks like he thinks of you like a sex worker 🙃

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I think the release of endorphins can trick both people into feeling that they love the other more for a short period, but real love is a much deeper and more complex thing.  I would say being compatible in bed can really add intimacy and connection to a relationship which is important.

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Look at cardi b.. beyonce.. they still got cheated on.

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Love and sex are not necessarily correlated. In a perfect world, they would be, but in the imperfect world we live in, they are not. Sex/orgasm releases endorphins, which can masquerade as feelings of love. In many cases, the love really is there, as it no doubt is with your husband. Then sex is a joyous thing that brings you closer together. That physical union becomes an expression of your love for each other and in the moment, that love can feel almost overwhelming. That's not a bad thing and physical touch is undoubtedly an important part of a relationship. However, sometimes sex is just a physical act, much as it pains me to say that. In those cases, it is purely about physical gratification and the feeling of love is transient and may be chalked up entirely to the endorphin rush. Then it is love for the orgasm, love for the physical reaction to touch, not love for the person with whom one is having sex. 
In your case, I would say your husband probably does love you very much and that love is heightened by the physical expression achieved through sexual intercourse. I don't think there is a problem with that as long as he demonstrates that he loves you outside the bedroom too and doesn't just view you as a sex doll for his personal gratification, while ignoring your needs altogether. My husband's number one love language is physical touch by a very wide margin. He highly values it and often his most emphatic expressions of love occur in that context. I'm fine with that because he also ensures that he spends quality time with me, which is my top love language, again by a very wide margin. As long as you feel loved and respected in all aspects, I don't think anything is wrong. If you don't, then you may want to have a conversation with him about that.

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Nope  you could be a couple freak in bed and have great oral  that doesn’t mean  he won’t cheat .

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No it does matter. Women and men both cheat because they want to.

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Sex is a very intimate way of expressing affection, it doesn’t make someone love you more or love you less.

If your good in bed does that make him love you more?

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