Hi girlies..

I got a bit of a heavy topic I want to ask about.. my friend is in a abusive relationship.. her man has been openly cheating, hitting her, biting her nose and all sorts of weird things.

She has now admitted those things to me and has told me she is scared of him and feels very manipulated. She wants to go to a holiday bungalow for a week so she can sleep normal and feel more safe..

He has told her he will bash her head in if she ever leaves and will stab her if she hurts him.

She will NOT call the police and is too scared to do anything about it.

Even though I don’t agree, I understand.. her boyfriend is a massive guy and can be very aggressive.. She, with extensive kick box training, would have a very hard time overpowering him.

She has been speaking to helplines etc. And the only help they can give , is the advice to call the police. Because the consequences of this are too scary for her, she won’t.

Has anyone been in her or my shoes and have some advice ?

I want to help her but it seems any option I have will only harm her more..

Thanks in advance xx