Lied to about Thanksgiving dinner.... 💔

My grandparents on my moms side decided to not do thanksgiving dinner because my grandparents are elderly and my grandpa has to have surgery soon.

My grandpa and his new wife on my dads side decided to also not do it due to their age. Or so I was told. My grandpa and his wife won’t be attending, but the rest of the family is getting together and they all lied to me about it...

I started reaching out to them asking if they would still like to get together and I would cook. They all told me no, that they were going to just stay home. Well, I just found out that they have all planned a dinner together and not told me about it and weren’t going to. They don’t want me to attend because I am in a polyamorous relationship and they all hate it. Even though I told them it would just be me attending they don’t care. They are all extremely Mormon and have been leaving me out of all family things since they found out. My moms family also doesn’t talk to me at all anymore because they are the same way. My bonus mom also hasn’t talked to me in months so I guess she also doesn’t want me in her life...

I guess I just don’t have a family anymore... it’s just me, my husband, and my boyfriend. My mom talks to me some times and my sister will say hi every once in a while. Other than that, I guess I’m just disowned... 😞💔

*ADDED*

I found out through my cousin. She is the only one that still talks to me and asked what time I’d be there. She’s pissed that they didn’t invite me and were keeping it from me.