Do you think I deserve to get yelled at and called names?

I basically accused my husband of watching porn too much last night. He didn’t cum, blamed it on stress but this has never happened before. I have said I’m fine with porn but not it I’m gonna be lied to about it. He said he hasn’t watched it at all recently and I said “see that’s the issue, porn makes you lie and not be as attracted to me”

He went off on a name calling and fuck you rant. I feel worthless. He could have just reassured me.... now I’m to blame and he is still calling me names cause I’m not “listening” even tho I get it was wrong and I’m sorry