When I'm confronted in a negative way I usually...

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How do you handle yourself when someone is obnoxiously getting angry and in your face about a serious or even an irrelevant matter? Do you keep your cool normally or are you one of those people that automatically meet them at their level and escalate it until resolved? Are you the person to shy away or walk away from the situation? Or maybe you have been lucky enough to never be on someone's bad side. 
How do you react in the moment?

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I'm the type that ill stay calm, cool and collected and try to descilat the situation. However if the other person keeps going and keeps pushing the issue and in my face I end up matching their energy. Then my words end up hurting their feelings making them shut up and walking away

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Took years to get this way. I used to be more confrontational. But I can calmly talk to someone without losing it now

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I hit shy away, but that was before completely reading. If I hear anyone arguing or getting loud (not with me) I definitely sneak away. However, if it's someone doing it to me I usually let them talk. Explain my side while staying calm. Then depending on how bad it is after the situation I either get angry, upset or laugh.  I am a customer experience manager, I get customers bitching all the time. I hate it, it's uncomfortable but I am usually good at staying calm.

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It depends on a lot of factors. I'm not going to react the same way to a family member or friend the way I would to a stranger. It depends on what the issue is and how serious, petty, rational, irrational the issue is. It depends on how educated I am or they are on the subject.
I'm not really around people with no self control but I definitely take into consideration my safety and whether or not something is worth my time before deciding if I'm going to engage or not.

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I avoid it at all costs but once someone gets so outta hand, I know I'm bound to pop off. I mainly avoid it for my husband's sake lol

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I call them a child and confidently walk away.

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I don’t blow up but I’m not necessarily peaceful. I’m quite confrontational so I strongly say whats up.

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I get sarcastic and speak to them like they are an idiot child. Super polite and smiling the whole time...

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