sex,, please help?

Question

hey!
i met the love of my life last year, we’re incredibly happy together and sexually, we’re satisfied.
however, i genuinely cannot have an orgasm during sex, not even during foreplay.
we’ve tried literally everything, but ive resorted to faking it because everything we’ve tried has failed. i can only orgasm during masturbation.
is something wrong with me?
thx
L

Answer

75% of women cannot climax from penetration alone, clitoral stimulation is a must, you also know yourself what works for you because you do it time and time again. The other thing it could be a psychological aspect maybe you’re sabotaging yourself because you think it happened before it’s gonna happen again and no with your partner that nothing is going to get better if you fake it and then reality the only one who’s getting any pleasure out of this is him. And that’s not fair to you, you need to figure out what works best for you and show him when I do this it really gets me hot can we try it or maybe you need to try a vibrator in your clitoris or rubbing your clitoris while being penetrated whether he rubs or you do. I’m 42 years old I have never gotten off with a partner. Reason being my previous partners were selfish assholes and only cared about getting off themselves and don’t even attempt to try, I was young and stupid in my 20s obviously and I just let men use me and take advantage of me because I didn’t wanna be alone and would settle and tolerate whatever and got abused unfortunately a lot. Now that I’m older, at least some men attempt to try, whether that is going down on me or using their fingers on my clitoris or something. My current partner we are like 80 to 90% there. He almost got me over the last time but yeah he got too excited and stopped when he was doing. And then it’s like a train. You have to go up the track to get over the hill to enjoy the ride down but if you stop the same momentum the train rolls back to the station and you have to start all over again or it could be overly stimulated and it’s just not going up the track. Pressure, lubrication, the constant speed or pressure that you know that what works for you at home is the difference. Maybe try getting a cheap vibrator for your Clit. Spencers gifts in the mall has a whole sexy section, sometimes you can get lucky at Walmart or target, but due to the young youth of America that stuff is usually locked up, but sometimes you get lucky. I will try different things. So let’s try something different and try introducing the sex toys or rubbing yourself so that you don’t end up raw and then it becomes painful because he’s overly stimulating the area or not using enough lubrication always use a water-based lube nothing that’s silicone they can eat through condoms or not good for sex toys or can cause infections if it heats up or is flavored that’s an infection waiting to happen. Good luck and I hope things get better.￼

Answer

So I’ve heard in multiple platforms that when things like this happens the woman needs to work on herself and allowing herself To cum and what’s preventing this from happening? Are you too much in your head? Are you wanting to try different positions to see if that helps? Maybe learn about your body and play with yourself more.

sex,, please help?

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