Is it wrong to have toys when married?
Is it wrong of me to have toys that my husband doesn’t know about? I love him and having sex with him but sometimes he’s lazy and doesn’t take time for me to finish. Or sometimes I just want to do it myself (I’ve always enjoyed toys) I don’t want to tell him I have them because I feel like it might hurt his feelings 🤷♀️ part of me feels like it’s whatever and the other part feels like maybe it’s wrong...
I wanted to edit to add that I don’t want to tell him I have them because he’s already insecure about himself in bed and I’m afraid me having the toys will make him feel like he’s inadequate or something when that’s not the case at all. So I don’t even know how to bring it up. We’ve been married almost 6 years with 2 kids so you’d think I wouldn’t feel awkward about anything anymore lol so if anyone has any advice on how to bring up the subject that’d be welcomed too.
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