Didn’t hear from my bf for thanksgiving...😕

My boyfriends mother doesn’t cook for thanksgiving. They usually go over his aunts house for dinner. However, this year both his uncle and aunt tested positive for COVID so plans were ruined. My bf told me his mother was going to try to cook this year. I told my bf they were more than welcome to come.

Last week, my bf told me his mom decided not to cook any thing for thanksgiving. So I told him they all can come to my parents house. He told me he would just end up coming with his brother. His parents are going through marital issues so I think his mom was not really in the mood.

Anyways, on Sunday we got into a huge mess. He asked me for space to cool off. By space it’s usually 1-2 hours. So I did. 2 hours later I get 15 missed calls. I was showering so I couldn’t pick up. I had like 29 missed texts where he tells me to pick up “the fucking phone” I also had a text from his mom too!!! She was asking me what was going on. I asked her why she was asking and she told me my bf was punching walls and kicking furniture and yelling. His father questioned him if he had used drugs because of his violent behavior. So my bf said that he was angry because of ME. 😳

I told my mother in law that we did have an argument but he just asked me for space so I did. I was showering and he called me so many times leaving screaming voicemails to answer the phone. I guess he was mad I wasn’t picking up. I told her I was showering!!!

Monday morning my bf texts me angry telling me not to involve his mother. I told him I never did! Lol she came asking me what had triggered his behavior and I explained how it was. So my bf tells me “so that’s why my dad kept asking if i was high on something and asking me about my money" i told him i never mentioned drugs or money. At that moment i was mad he was acting like a child. i still told him he was welcome at our dinner table and would be more than happy to see him.

Today morning he texts me saying he wouldnt be texting me at all today. i was confused. He said he was going to buy food and spend his thanksgiving alone. ok???? i didnt even bother texting him.

3 hours later he noticed I didn’t beg so he texted me more angry saying to leave him alone. That’s what I had been doing.

He tells me this. His parents don’t talk to him because of his behavior. I saw he was on Facebook posting stuff with friends and it makes me sad that he’s “supposedly mad” but can still talk to his friends and not me. I’m so hurt I haven’t heard from him since 6pm