What does this say about his intentions

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My fiancé is a trainer and has been a little too flirty lately with girls. so I asked a friend he’s never met to help me out and message him. I know I’m super immature for this. What do you guys think about his response. And would I be overreacting to confront him.

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Girl just break up if you gotta do all that. You obviously don’t trust him so there’s no relationship there and he’s meeting up with a girl. Just leave him instead of resorting to crazy.

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To me that's a clear answer that he's not looking to do anything - right off the bat he said he's not single and he wasn't rude about it either. I don't think you have anything to worry about.

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He said he’s not single what more do you want. He did t flirt he straight out said he can’t. While still implying she’s good looking so not to hurt her feelings. Sounds like all is fine.

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If you confront him you’ll look crazy for having someone message him like that. He did say he was single, but he also definitely did act too flirty with the emoji and saying how he would definitely be interested if not single...he should’ve just ignored it or said thanks im taken... unless you have other examples to bring up to him talking about this to him will just bite you in the ass as you will come off insecure and crazy

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He stated he is taken. Kudos for him.

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He definitely gave her that "im in a relationship" vibe but also still open to chatting with her with creating communication where she can easily respond and have a conversation with him. Normally a person in a serious relationship wouldve made sure they replied with something that wont lead into another conversation or just not reply at all if you get what i mean.

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If I felt the need to creep around like this to get some sort of proof of something, I would just move on. It’s clearly not the right relationship for me 🤷🏼‍♀️

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Meh. He's saying he's not single which is good!

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He didn’t do anything wrong. You did. Move on instead of wasting both of your times.

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The fact that you deliberately set a trap for him says much more about you than his response does about him. If you feel the need to resort to nasty tricks like this, just end it now and give yourself some time to mature emotionally before embarking on another relationship. He needs to deal with his flirting too, but he doesn't need you setting him up to fail. That's not okay.

What does this say about his intentions

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