How did you deliver #2 after shoulder dystocia

I delivered my first and apparently she said 60 second shoulder dystocia. Everything was fine so maybe thats why I don't remember it much. Just a couple dramatic moments where suddenly a doctor was on the bed pounding on my stomach.

Anyways, I've had an elective c-section scheduled since like 20 weeks. But I recently decided to cancel it because I don't know how to recover from it and am more familiar with vaginal recovery and it just feels like that's gonna be best for my family.

However, they are now saying I need to have an extended conversation if I truly want to attempt vaginal because I'm carrying a boy he might be bigger, is it worth the risk, etc.

Tell me your stories and decisions :)