Trying So Hard for A baby

Hello World😊 my husband and I have been trying for 16 years to have a baby and we’ve been so unfortunate to conceive. We’re looking for other ways to possibly have a baby. Adoption is expensive, Ivf is expensive. We just don’t know what we could do. I hurt everyday because the dream of being a mommy has been taken away from somehow, and I have to watch everyone around me get pregnant and have babies😞. We have so much love between us that we want to share with our own bundle of joy. Can someone help?