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So my husband friend thinks my cousin is good looking & wants us to introduce him to her. No biggie. However, she HAD an onlyfans. My cousin isn’t really into the type of women who show off their bodies to the world. He doesn’t care if girls have an onlyfans but he wouldn’t take them seriously. I was telling my husband if maybe we should tell my cousin about that part of her & he said no, to leave it up to her. I definitely can see why bc if I was in her shoes, I wouldn’t want someone telling a person I’m interested in about my business. But then I feel like if my cousin knew we knew this, he’d be upset we didn’t tell him before. Who should disclose this info? Us or her?

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This is absolutely none of your business. If she wants to tell him, she can. Otherwise it’s none of his business either. It’s not up to y’all to determine what your cousin is or isn’t ok with.

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I’m not for outing anyone. Let her do it. But also let him meet her on his own. Have a small gathering or whatever (wear masks) and then let them “meet” on their own terms. That way this can’t come back on either of you.
What she does privately is her business to tell.

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It’s not your business, so not your place to tell anyone anything about anyone else.

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Definitely not you two. People can have a checklist of their perfect partner but the truth is chemistry is chemistry and if they were to become something he can learn to grow and deal with it rather than not giving her a chance and denying his own happiness over some ego holier than thou bs.

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Let them figure out things in a potential relationship together without you being in the middle.

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Neither of you should be sharing that info. It’s not your business.

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Her business not yours..let her deal with it& her tell him if she wants..

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I had a male friend who asked me about a woman I know. I didn’t think think he’d be into her based on some things about her lifestyle so I told him while he was asking me about her. It would’ve just been something I think you could’ve told him nonchalantly while he was asking about her. Now it’s a big weird thing.

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It's none of your business and not for you to "disclose". They're adults. They can figure out their own relationships, they don't need you hand holding or telling their business.

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Let her tell him. Yeah you and your husband may know about it, but that's not your issue to worry about. Let your cousin figure out if they are compatible or not. I assume since you said "had" that she has deleted it by now. She may have realized making an only fans wasn't a wise choice. Your cousin can decipher what her true personality is and if that's what he is in too

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