Suspected Miscarriage? Advice Please

Mo

This is my second baby, and I have a gut feeling that I’ve miscarried or that something is wrong.

I haven’t told anyone because I don’t want to look silly if (hopefully) I’m wrong, but it’s not even just normal worry, it’s almost like I just “know”.

I was measuring 4 days behind at my first ultrasound around 7-8 weeks but was told that it’s normal. No big deal.

At my 10w4d check up, she was unable to detect a heartbeat with the Doppler but said it’s probably just too early.

However, I’ve had a complete loss of pregnancy symptoms which I honestly didn’t think to mention at the appointment. I was just relieved to not be feeling sick anymore & I thought maybe I just got lucky this time around and wasn’t that concerned. But the longer time goes on and I’m not feeling any sort of pregnancy symptom, the more worried I become.

I went from being super bloated, gassy, & exhausted early on, to feeling nauseated for MAYBE 2-3 weeks around weeks 7-9.. then nothing.

I’ve felt completely normal apart from vaginal pressure, light abdominal pain/cramping, and the fact that my depression has resurfaced.

With my last pregnancy I was very sick well into my second trimester, and had one symptom right after another. It was unrelenting and I don’t ever recall NOT experiencing some sort of pregnancy symptom constantly.

Also noticed this morning that I’m having a ridiculous amount of mucousy, snot-like discharge (sorry TMI) in addition to my vaginal/pelvic pressure but no blood.

What should I do? Ignore it until next visit in a few weeks? Call my doctor? Anything to worry about? Anyone else experienced this? It’s almost all I can think about anymore.. Honestly I’ve had a gut feeling from the moment I found out I was pregnant that something was wrong. Didn’t ever feel this way with my first. I appreciate any advice!