Abortion

Has anyone had an abortion and regretted it years later? Has anyone felt like it was the right choice?

For context, my husband and I have two children, he was booked for a vasectomy and we were using birth control. Just found out I’m two months pregnant and an extremely torn about having another baby during the current state of the world. On top of that, we were very happy with it being the four of us so this is completely a shock to me. I just want to make the best decision for my family. I very much need people’s experiences that are not based on their stance but on how it has effected you afterwards.

I am so worried about having one and then always thinking about the what if’s. Or having the baby as the world crumbles. There are so many things going through my head and I don’t know what the right thing to do is.

**** Not looking for pro-choice/life opinions. I am sure if you want to debate about that there’s a Reddit thread somewhere but I want this to be a SAFE place away from judgement. Looking for personal experiences.