Anal..?

Question

My husband and I want to try anal. How do I relax enough to let it happen?

Answer

And the first thing I’m gonna tell you is that you have to relax, the more you tense up the more things constrict, there are millions of nerve endings back there and if you hesitate at your body will tighten up and make it more painful for you. The next thing is lube lots of lube, I’m like the vagina that is self lubricating the anus is not, start slow, either fingers or a butt plug or a vibrator or a dildo etc. Some people do Enima to clean themselves out, some people just take a wet wipe up there, do not be shocked if you get shit on the sheets or you get Diarrhea the next day or if you bleed,and are sore. Neosporen with pain relief will help the next day. Just take it slow, don’t tense up because everything will construct and make it worse on you. Maybe take a vibrator to your clitoris, it will help to be more pleasurable for you, and it’s a lot of just relaxing and taking things slow. Maybe try it on yourself first take a vibrator or dildo or some thing up there and just take it slow, your anus will go back to its normal shape even though it may look like a gaping hole when he’s done, and just take it slow when it comes to food the next day. You may get diarrhea. I wouldn’t eat before hand, or clean yourself out￼ etc. Everyone is different, just know that you may get hemorrhoids from the friction and rubbing just the same as when you have a child and you’re pushing the child out or from anal sex or from hard and difficult stool trying to pass. Or if you already have hemorrhoids they may get irritated. Take it slow, you got to relax, and lots of lube.

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Lots of lube and easing into it. He has to be gentle and patient.

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A lot of alcohol and lube 😂

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I’d recommend using a finger or small plug first if you’ve never done anything back there. Just so you can get used to the feeling a little bit. Lots of forplay before hand gets me relaxed. And use lotssss of lube. Lube is your friend. Go slow. It shouldn’t hurt, just pressure. Of it hurts back off because you could injure yourself. Go slow.

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Make sure u use the toilet first and clean up probably,use alot of lubricant.and lot of kisses I find that relaxing🤷🏽‍♀️,I also find my fiancé settle talking me relaxing

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The easiest way for me was doggy style, I just had my bf go really slow and he was gentle about it. We also used coconut oil which helped a lot.

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