First time parent fights

So my husband and I got into it yesterday because he was supposed to take the night shift with the baby so I could get some sleep. Well he didn’t so he said he would do it tonight well he woke me up at 3 and said the baby wouldn’t go to sleep and he was over it. So here I am again for the 3rd night in a row getting the baby to go to sleep. And once I’m up I am up I can’t get back to sleep. It’s very rare that I can get back to sleep. So now I’ll be up till about 10 pm tonight and fall asleep for like 4 hours and wake up to do it all over again. I just asked him for one night that’s it.

He doesn’t go back to work till February 8th and he might as well go back now since I’m doing it all my self anyway. He does help a lot. But sometimes he like checks out and doesn’t want to deal. The baby sleeps fine during that day but the past couple days he hasn’t wanted to sleep at night unless he’s in your arms.