Husband watching porn during oral sex

My husband and I have been married 7 years. Been together 11. For the last 5 years or so my husband has been watching porn every time I give him a blow job. Every single time with very few exceptions. The first few times I thought it was him wanting to spice things up etc and it was little fun but now it’s every time.

I know what a lot of people are probably thinking, it’s an attraction issue with me and maybe it is but I have never let myself go. I stay in great shape, keep my hair, nails and make up done always and I have great hygiene. I look the same as I did when we got together and I know he’s attracted to me.

This situation however had tanked my self confidence. He now prefers getting blow jobs while watching porn than having actual sex. He justifies it by saying he watches so he cums faster and I don’t have to “be down there too long” 🙄 I’ve become so concerned that I went through his search history to see how much porn he’s watching and it’s seems he’s watching porn every morning (even on days he’s at work!) and sometimes he’s watching porn in the bathroom while I’m in the house. I don’t want to bring it up that I’ve seen the amount he’s watching by going through his phone and I’ve never been the kind of wife to tell him he can’t watch porn because I know it’s not realistic but obviously it’s starting to become an issue in our marriage. What should I do?

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