Second time question

For second time moms... anyone struggling with comparing first pregnancy with this one? Specifically, body and belly. I was 20 lbs lighter to start with my first and showed earlier and had a cute little belly, but this time around, I feel like you can hardly tell if I’m just overweight or pregnant. It’s bumming me out hard, and also making me more anxious not being able to see the belly growing the same way I did. I keep trying to think the first time I had no comparison, and each one is different, but it’s a struggle! 😭