Am I a 3rd time mom?

Question

So I've recently been thinking and am I a 3rd time mom?
Here's why I ask
At 14 I was raped and met Matthew
My parents raised her
On my 16th birthday I married Matthew
Later we found out I was pregnant
The baby was born while I was still 16
He was born still born (full term)
At 25 my daughter committed suicide at 11 after learning she was conceived through rape 
I'm now 26 and expecting Boy/girl twins in April
Anyway my point
Do I call myself a 3rd time mom?

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You are a very strong woman and I just told my husband briefly (I hope that's okay because it's anonymous to him) and he was kind of in awe but amazed that you survived all of that as well. He said, "f***. I don't know if I'd want to live. That's a lot of healing to go through. Good for her!"
And I thought that same thing. I am so terribly sorry for those losses. But I'm sure you'll be a wonderful mother <3 hugs and prayers to you and your growing family!! So happy for you!!

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I voted ftm but only because if i had been through all that i wouldn't want to explain where my other 2 kids were when anyone asked so i would just tell people i was a ftm. But yes, you are a 3rd time mom.

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Yes, you gave birth so technically your a 3rd time mom but In my opinion i would consider you a ftm only because you never got the opportunity to be a mom and raise a child

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In this case I would say it's however you feel. If you feel like you're a 3rd time mom then you deserve that title.

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This is so so sad :( I would say first time because this is the first child you will personally raise! Being said I would tell people if they ask that you have 4 children but only two are still here with us

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My first was a stillbirth, my second was live and still is healthy, my third died. I still call myself a 4th time mom. I loved all my babies and still do.

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I lost my first daughter. She was stillborn. I now have a two year old and am pregnant with my third-a little girl and I consider myself a 3rd time mommy. But I'm also still a grieving mom. I loved my daughter with all my heart. When people ask how many I have I say this is my third and that I have a seven year old and a two yea old and currently 24 weeks pregnant. I'm so sorry for your losses!

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You're a 3rd time mom. And a tough one at that. I'm so sorry that you've had to experience such things.

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Well I lost my baby boy (Jorden) at 15 I'm 18 now and I consider myself a mom. When I have another child that will be my second baby.

Am I a 3rd time mom?

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