CSec then VBAC, now been referred back to OB ...

First spontaneous labour @40w resulted in emergency C sec after being fully dilated and pushing for hours, 2nd spontaneous labour at 38w was seconds away from another emergency c sec due to baby not descending and labour was rapid they were worried about cord prolapse/uterine rupture when my waters broke, I refused c sec and told OB to look again. Resulted in episiotomy and forceps. Third time around I’ve been referred back to OB, MW thinks they could push me harder for a scheduled c sec since my babies don’t seem to be in the right position, last labour happened rapidly. She suggested if I was really anti another c sec to suggest induction - I know the most important thing is getting the baby out safely etc but I really don’t want a c sec or to be induced. Any advice or things to ask the OB at my upcoming appointment? Thanks!