Fly out to see a zaddy?

Long story short I ended a marriage after my husband cheated multiple times & controlled me to the point where I couldn’t have friends, monitored my location, and spent all our savings on himself.

I have him multiple attempts & on the last chance, I gave him a year to fix himself. Nothing changed. That was 7 months ago, so I cut him off. Now we are separated & live in completely different households. We have a daughter that I allow him to see everyday via in person or FaceTime, but she lives with me.

I work full time, he pays no child support & we’re still in the process of filing for divorce due to finances.

I met someone through work who I no longer work with because they moved. This person was my supervisor & has helped me emotionally during the process. This person confessed their feelings for me, but I feel like they are just stringing me along.

We’ve already been intimate a few times & he bought me a plane ticket to go see him for a weekend. Part of me wants to go just for fun but the other part of me doesn’t want to go because I’m confused on what that person’s intentions are.

I don’t go out in the weekends so this would be the first time I’m away from my daughter for 3 days. I told my ex I have a trip scheduled & he made me feel like a horrible mother saying I should stay home because of Covid. Mind you again, I have no friends & don’t go out.

My Ex has the freedom to go out whenever he likes & even brags to me about the multiple women he has sex with.

I’m confused if I should fly because I don’t want to keep an emotional connection with someone who’s basically flying me out to be intimate with them. Other part of me thinks that I’m young & should enjoy life because I won’t be able to do this when I’m old.

What are your thoughts?