sex i guess

hi i have a long very long question so I recently got married and I had honeymoon urethritis the ER told me that when I went and then I didn’t take the medicine because it gave me just a bad reaction and then I went back to the doctor because it had like stopped and then it came back and then it stopped and you know so on and so forth well my doctor said it wasn’t an infection it was more of an irritation you know when to pause sex for a while so I did well you know here I am seven months later and it keeps you know on and back off and on and back off at you know when it’s limiting my sex life I’m just very curious to what I can do I literally only drink water like I had a few sweet teas this week and it made my urine cloudy so i’m confused do i have to drink water and just hope for the best for the rest of my life also me and my husband are trying thankfully this wasn’t happening while i was ovulating but it’s a whole lot i know but if you have anything that could help me that would be great ! and it happend tonight i’ve been to the doctor and it keeps coming back (i had recently sent this to a doctor friend sorry!!) but it’s like in my vagina and sometimes when i pee if that makes sense at all please i’ve tried azo everything ibuprofen ice ebsom salt(i can’t spell!!) i just need someone to tell me something other than “go to the doctor” ya know help me out ladies!! please