Hey ladies! I wanna start this by saying that I used to always have doubts that I was “broken” or I didn’t know how to orgasm. I’m 17 and I was in a 2 year relationship (which has now ended) where we had sex often so I figured there was no way I haven’t orgasmed yet, but I still always had doubts. You hear so much about “oh you’ll know when you have one” and trust me, you will. I recently got a vibrator with my best friend (it’s called the purple pleasure by satisfyer) and last night I had my first orgasm with it! If you’re in the same boat as I was, I recommend choosing a day when you are completely relaxed, taking a nice shower or bath and lighting a candle. When you go to actually try to reach an orgasm, I would turn on some relaxing / nature music and letting your mind go blank. Give yourself time and you got this! I love you all and I hope this can help someone.