*********EDIT: I am not “jealous” about them talking. I am disturbed bc at the time I was confiding in her about him, flying to visit him in NY, like we were dating for 7 months! This just makes me question her character and honestly she’s cool with my now husband and it makes me question if I can trust her around him...

Now I expect this type of bullshit from a man but not my actual best friend and y’all are mad weird if you think it’s ok to flirt or be inter in someone your best friend is talking to WHILE YOU ARE STILL TALKING TO YHAT PERSON! This isn’t someone from high school or someone that didn’t mean anything to me! We were telling each other we love each other.

I am happily married now but her telling me that all bc she’s vented to me about her man getting ready to leave her bc she doesn’t know how to be loyal and come to find out she wasn’t even loyal to me! That’s shady... some of you are missing the point.*********

So this is only bothering me bc “girl code”...

I have since married for 6 months but I was involved with my childhood friend for about 7 months or so before me and my husband rekindled our relationship...

Now the guy I was seeing before I had immense love for and I miss him dearly as my friend if anything. I told him I was back with the father of my child and out of respect... we weren’t flying back and forth to see each other from TX to NY anymore but we still kept in contact bc at the root of everything, we were still friends...

My best friend knew about my feelings for him... well today she admitted to me that she was having inappropriate conversations with him back when him and I were still talking and her current boyfriend saw messages and I guess it was a huge fight bc her bf knows that that used to be someone I was seeing and she was being inappropriate...

Like I’m just bothered that she went behind my back at the time. I know I’m married now and I wish him the best but she is my best friend... out of all guys, why would she go trying to talk to him? And while she has a man at that...

I don’t think this is enough to end our 14 year friendship but I’m definitely feeling uneasy.. not bc I want him but bc she’s my girl... I would never go talking to one of her exes!