My boyfriend is the father of our daughter. She is 4. He never offers to take her I always have to ask. Tonight I told him I was going to take a shower. I didn't shower till around 945 because I was playing games with my daughter. She took a late nap so she stayed up a bit later. He pooped on the toilet for like 30minutes atleast. But instead of him taking her upstairs he goes into the living room to watch TV. And its after 10 pm. He won't just take her up and get her ready for bed I have to tell him. He is the type of person who should not be a father. Its frustrating. He has nights hes suppose to put her to bed but he never just does it I always have to say "ok it's time for you to put her to bed" hes 42 years old by the way. Talk about grow the fuck up.