Am I selfish ?

I’m having my own troubles and my boyfriend tells me to open up more so now I tell him what’s wrong and he now says it’s always about me . He was going through something for two days and says that I never noticed but I literally ask him what’s wrong And he doesn’t open up . So Now he says there’s no point in trying to explain it to me . But any change in his face I ask him what’s wrong and he doesn’t give an answer. How am I supposed to help if I’m not getting anything from him . Am I in the wrong ? Like be honest . I usually like to handle my own shi but he wants me to come to him to talk and I have but I’m guessing now it’s too much . He said I always have shi going on . But my logic is ... we both can have shi but I can easily put it aside to make you my priority like you have done to me .