I have been dating this guy for a year. I have been feeling really upset with the fact that our relationship has not progressed more. He works a whole lot because the pandemic has hit us hard, but I never see him more than once a week. Then he didn’t even get me a birthday gift. I’m not materialistic but he made excuses and didn’t even make an effort. I know he really likes me and I really like him but it is hella disappointing he is not treating with more dedication.

I want to do something for Valentine’s Day. I have ghosted him for a week because he never apologized for our disagreement on our relationship. He never acknowledged the issue after that day.

I am debating if I should reach out to him or not. I really want to do something because we are coming up on our anniversary. I want to have sex as well 😂.

Would it be smart for me to contact him in your opinion?

(He left me on read cause he didn’t want to talk about it anymore. Then he was just sending me streaks, so I started ghosting him. That is why)