Rant about my ex š
So Iāve posted a bit about this before. But my ex is completely mentally unstable and bipolar and super controlling and manipulative and a narcissist.
Weāve been going through court for custody/divorce. We started out being civil and just doing shared before we got the courts involved and he left our son (1 1/2 years old) home alone at 10 months old, heās a huge pothead and left our son alone and thinks bc our son wasnāt actually hurt means its not child endangerment. He also refused to take our son to childrenās when he was told too (i was at work late and couldnāt get off till an hour before i was supposed to be off) due to him running a high fever and nothing breaking it, and when he finally took him he drove high with our son in the car. Brought him back to me when heād have him every other weekend with bruises in spots that thereās no way my son did to himself and they were thumb print bruises. I have proof of all of this, my lawyer even said heās unfit and we tried to do supervised visits for awhile and counseling through the courts for him to get better. They declined it because āit was a one time incident and he apologizedā now this man has NEVER apologized for a single thing in his life and actually mean it, everytime heās apologized itās just to get the subject dropped. They went ahead and gave him standard visits back and he has NOTHING for our son but a crib that his dad bought. He refused to buy anything my son needs for his house because āhe pays me so much child support i need to stop being greedy and use that to get things our son needs for his houseā heās said im horrible person, a shitty mother, and a bunch of other things. Hes never been a good dad. And the courts said that heās going to have to continue to mistreat our son in order for them to do anything to him. So to me, it feels like they donāt care about our son as much as they say, since theyād let him go to his dads knowing heās neglectful, abusive, and mentally unstable. And knowing he has nothing for him.
Just ranting and feel kinda lost and defeated here. Heās never done a thing for my son but yell at him and mistreat him and even with a lot of proof they wonāt do anything because āheās a young new dadā šš not sure what else to do but no donāt trust him with my baby boy šš
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