Help boyfriend problems

So I hangout with my boyfriend more than I hang out with my family. I love hanging out with him when we do hang out. I’m in a mood today and my family is worried about me driving on slippery roads to see him. I called him and told him that my family didn’t feel safe with me driving on the roads in 4 degree weather and I feel like I’ve really let him down. What do I do? What if he wants to end our relationship. I feel bad because he drives to see me more then I do. My vehicle doesn’t have four wheel drive like his does. He can’t pick me up because he works. I just feel bad.

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Th

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If he’s going to end the relationship because you chose to be safe. Is that really someone you want to be with? This seems like a toxic and bad relationship already

Th

The Koala Sage • Feb 12, 2021
Also if you’re willing to risk your life or other people’s lives by driving a front wheel drive vehicle on slippery roads. Please stay home

El

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The other day I had plans with my bf and we had high wind and rains, I let him know I didn’t really feel safe driving ( he couldn’t pick me up) and he was sweet and understanding and said “ you being safe is the most important thing, stay safe, we have the rest of our lives together” ... never settle for less!

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I think you might be overthinking it. You are allowed to cancel plans for various reason. I don't think your bf will break up with you because of that. He probably would want you to stay at home and be safe. You can always Facetime him. Don’t worry it will be okay!!! 

Ki

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Why would your relationship just because you can’t see him for your safety?? The fact you think he’ll break up with you over that is very problematic on both ends and just based on that you should break up...