My bf and I broke up for about a year in 2019 we got back together summer 2020. While we weren’t together he started seeing someone. We worked out our issues through therapy and got back together . He ended things with the girl (we’ll call her stacy) Stacy seemed understanding she said she worked things out with her ex as well.

Fast forward to thanksgiving middle of the night. My bf gets a call from her bf asking him when’s the last time he saw Stacy that he knows they’re still fucking blah blah blah. Now I’m looking at him waiting for him to tell this man that he’s wrong but nope him and Stacy were still fucking.

We take our asses back to therapy. He’s telling the therapist that stacy is mentally unstable she calls him 80 times in a day with suicide threats so he runs to her aid and they end up having sex. Bullshit right ? My dumbass takes him back.

A month later we’re on vacation in Mexico. His phone was ringing off the hook non stop but were both really drunk from the night before and sleep through it. Then the hotel phone rings I answer it and it’s STACY. I’m like wtf how did you even find out what hotel we’re in? She found out from Instagram location and called 8 different hotels until one of them had a guest by my name. His name is very common so she asked for mine. This girl tells me “put him on the phone or I’m going to shoot myself right now” I’m like wtf you’re crazy I hang up she called back 8 times. I went downstairs to the reception and ask them to stop transferring the calls to our room.

We get back to NYC go about our daily lives it’s shortly after January. My bf gets a call at work that his gf is on the line (I never call him at work, we work in the medical field I don’t have time for that crap neither does he) he calls me 3 times on my cell but I missed it cause I’m busy at work. Now my job tells me my bf is on the line. He’s panicking like is everything ok why did you call my job ask for me then hang up. I said I didn’t call your job I’m swamped with 27 covid patients I don’t have time for the jokes right now. About an hr later he texts me saying it was Stacy that called and he’s on the phone with the police because she’s trying to kill herself because she couldn’t get ahold of him.

She sliced her wrist , she took 13 pain meds (Tylenol I think) and she set up a belt on her ceiling fan to hang herself on. She sent him pictures. Police get there and they take her to my hospital. I go down to the ER to see how she’s doing and she’s out of it but as soon as she sees me she starts going ballistic ! Screaming “HE LOVES HER NOT ME” they had to sedate her. I never bothered to go back and check her files to see what happened after her episode.

Now Valentine’s Day comes. Perfect night , we’re fast asleep. It’s 5am and I hear someone knocking on the door like it’s the police I look through the peep hole and it’s STACY. I wake my bf up like she’s here stacy is here why ? He’s panicking idk why she’s here my bf is so scared he throws up. I open the door and she instantly attacks me and runs straight for me him with a screw driver. He knocked it out her hand and she starts biting him she bit a chunk of his skin off. 2 hours it took to calm this girl down. The cops come because our neighbors called and she’s going crazy on the cops too. But my bf refuses to let them arrest her telling them she needs medical help not police . I call her parents and they’re begging us not to let the police take her but she’s still trying attack my bf. Her parents get there and have to drag her away like legit by her feet drag her. So I guess I believe my bf now about her being mentally unstable but like he caused this drama in our lives and I’m just so angry and I feel so bad for this girl and my bf. Every time I look at him I see the physical damage she did to him and it makes me sick. I can tell he cares for her he keeps calling the hospital to see how she’s doing. He thinks Idk that he’s doing that. Idk what to do tbh

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Update with photos. We’ve decided to take legal action to protect ourselves because she now has a concussion. During the commotion of her attacking him he pushed her off and she hit her head. We knew she hit her head because it was pretty loud & hard. We tried to calm her down but she was just so aggressive. He had to pin her against the wall by her wrist which caused bruising to her wrist. There’s bite mark, bruises, scratches and puncture wounds from the screw driver all over his body. We do have a camera in our apt by the door and our building has cameras that directly face the outside of our apt door.

Oh yea and this morning our door knob came off. After going through the building footage she was knocking on the door for about 20min and then she started screwing our door knob off to break in. Then continued to knock for about 3 more minutes then you see me open the door. So if I didn’t wake up when I did she would have succeeded in breaking in and did god knows what while we were sleeping.