Is he in the wrong or me?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years without any arguments but I think we’re about to have the first. I’m a very picky eater but I go to any restaurant he wants and I try to eat foods out of my comfort zone and never complained. However, he wants us to go to our first double date with his friend and wants us to go to a restaurant that I don’t like whatsoever (we’ve gone before) and he doesn’t care.

Our convo went something like this:

Me: Cant we just go somewhere else?

Him: Stop being a party pooper, we’re going there.”

Me: “I won’t eat then because I don’t like beer and I don’t like the food there.”

Him: “Then don’t eat.”

I just don’t like the fact that he was completely dismissive about what I want. Like I NEVER complain and when I finally do, he doesn’t even TRY to talk about other possible options, nor does he care if I’m comfortable and eat.

And now he just texted me saying: “I’ll just tell them we won’t go.” Which got me more upset because I feel like he’s making me seem like the bad one and I told him to do what he wants and THEN He tells me that “it was his friend who invited us, not him” which just frustrates me because now I feel stupid especially because...

1. He could have said that in the beginning

2. He STILL could of been more considerate

3. He was the one that brought up the double date FIRST so that might be a lie

I don’t want to argue but he made me feel bad and like an idiot and it still hurts that he didn’t care at all about what I wanted... this all seems stupid but I can’t help feeling like this