Restraining order

My court date is coming up soon I am extending the order. As of right now he bit over 2 weeks sober. No that's not long. But what I was wondering if I able to take away on the order third party contact to see if he can help me with our kids financially. Yes I already put in child support but that can take months to a year and I think right now he would be willing to help me with child support while wait for courts. Idk is it a bad idea?

My grandmother said I should wait for the courts