Meeting new people

Hey guys so I’m 18 I’m soon to turning 19 and recently I’ve downloaded tinder and it’s pretty nice not gonna lie you know to meet more people and I’ve met nice people but like why does everyone just wanna hook up is that normal like do people just text for a hook up then leave ? Idk I don’t have that type of mind set yet idk if it’s just me that’s scares me I’ve only ever slept with two people and all they wanna do is hang out but I’m pretty sure that’s code for a hook up 🤧 am I the only one who actually likes to get to know someone before hooking up idk maybe I still have that child mindset and not wanting to rack up more bodies