Not attracted to partner..

3 years and a 1 year old together, for a few months now I’ve felt this way. I just wanna be independent, but I wanna help him get on his feet first but till then I wanna be on my own. Idk

He has no car no working phone no job, but watches our son while I work. I’ll get him what he needs but what do I do I can’t even bring myself to have sex.. it’s taking a mental toll on him.