May seem harsh but

Does anyone else feel like their husband/wife is like a weight, constantly pulling you down or making things 1000x harder than they should be? Financially my husband strains us worse than it needs to be. Example, last week we didn't have enough money in the bank.to get groceries but after I checked the statement I saw he spent $25 on one of his games on his phone.. we have 2 small boys.. I've been on the job hunt for months. Finally, I had an interview that went great and I think I've got it. I'll know Monday. He threw a fit. We will never see each other and you'll have to pay for your own gas. A friend of mine is going to watch the boys for me at a reasonable rate so I can work and still have my own money to take care of us. Even with his excuses of us not seeing each other the only response I gave is I want my own money. I'm even thinking about getting my own account because he is horrible with money. He is so selfish. Does anyone else feel this way?