First of all this is about my 3rd job. I do hair as my main, waitress at one place and bartend at this job I’m talking about.

I’m really conflicted right now.. I started working at this one bar. My boss(the bar owner) is great but at the same time not so great.. he will point out every little thing you do wrong. Which yes that makes you a good bar owner that things are great there. But the issue is he’ll come in and drink and watch you and critique you. But it’s not like you’re really doing something wrong, its just like you put that coaster crooked. If that makes sense? Just picks at everything. I always feel like I’m on eggshells.

So one night I was having a really really bad day. I usually don’t bring that into work but it was just hard. But I still did my job, jumped in right away to help so the other girl can leave. And within 10 minutes he just went off on me. Asking if I just needed to go home. Said I was an issue since I walked in the door. I told him I was fine and I would stay.. I was still doing my job as normal.. so not even sure what I was doing wrong. He never really even said. So he ended up talking to my manager about it to let her handle it with me. So we talked and I said how I always feel anxious and just like on eggshells and I wasnt sure if I wanted to stay. She said how they hope I would stay, but they understand because they’ve had girls quit because of him before. But that the boss does like me and even said he probably did go off too soon that night and does hope it works out for me. Well we worked it out and I switched to Monday nights where it’s just a little smoother and he usually doesn’t come in those nights. So I’ve been doing that the last month and it’s been fine.

My issue is with summer around the corner it’ll be busier and I feel like he’s going to end up coming in when I work and it’ll just get overwhelming for me. So I was already thinking about leaving.. then last night he came into my other job that I waitress at. He’s came in a few times before and was always great. Expect last night he was being a real jerk. He was pissed at me for not saving a specific booth like I said I would. Mind you I got busy and other couple jumped to the booth, I can’t just tell them to move.. but he was serious about me going over there and telling them to move.. he said he was fucking pissed and I said I’m sorry I tried and he told me well trying wasn’t good enough. Thankfully my boss was paying attention to the situation and she stepped in and pretty much put him in his place because she wasn’t going to let him treat me like that when I’m just doing my job the way they do it there. And she said she didn’t like him she was mad at the way he was acting. And even the rest of the night he was being so put offish to me.

So now after that I think that kind of just drew the line for me. I need the extra money but after that my boss and my waitress job told me she could find me an extra shift to pick up if I need the money. I just hate confrontation. And we have a work meeting next Sunday so if I do it now I feel like it’ll just be so awkward. Do I just do it now? Do I wait for x amount of time?? I’m