Am I wrong?

So I’m 38 weeks pregnant. People really stopped keeping in contact with me after I got pregnant. I was on a team and had to quit and only 1 true friend continued to hangout with me and be genuinely concerned about helping me n what not. An aunt of mine who i was extremely close with stopped talking to me as much, she would still sort of keep in contact but not as much. A lot of my friends messaged me in the beginning but went MIA during the rest of my pregnancy. My mil never really gave a shit about my boyfriend (her son!) until I got pregnant. We’ve been living on our own for a few years and she has never once bothered to come see us. My boyfriend always has to call her or they won’t talk. She always says it’s too hard to come see us with her other kids but they go spend the day literally 15 minutes from us and don’t even bother to stop and say hi or even invite us along sometimes. They also take trips to the snow which is like 3 hours away but can’t come see us. Since finding out I’m pregnant she has been calling more (she has 5 boys and I’m having a girl) and more recently once I hit 9 months she wants to come visit. We always let her, I want my baby to have a relationship with her family to of course I’m just life wtf it’s obvious she’s only worried about the baby but whatever. However, some of my friends all the sudden are coming back into my life asking about the baby, one of my friends who I used to be close with in high school made comments about her being a tia to my baby like??, my aunt made a comment about her coming over to see the baby when she’s born (were only allowing our parents due to covid so she basically invited herself or assumed she’d be let over). Like all these people are trying to come back in my life bc the baby is almost born and I don’t want any of them around (besides my mil). I don’t think it’s fair that all the sudden they wants to act concerned and caring bc I’m about to have the baby. Like they weren’t worried about me at all during my pregnancy and now they expect to be let back in? Like no. Am I wrong for feeling this way? Like keep that same energy after my baby’s born