Unnerved by 3somes because of previous rape?

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Do the ideas of 3somes scare you because you're a previous rape or molestation victim? I hate catching crap for it being 15' and "so many people srill haven't tried 3somes"... MAYBE some of us don't want to for reasons besides just not feeling like it. MAYBE people should think about how many victims are out there before saying stupid shit that makes others feel less human.

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As a rape victim, I don't use it as an excuse to complain about what other people say. If I don't want to have a threesome, then I won't, and I don't have to explain to to anyone. And neither do you. I don't expect people to filter their words just because some out there won't like it.

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I wouldn't have a threesomes but I don't think that it is because of rape.

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I never had a 3some for a few reasons and not one has to do with rape (I'm not a rape victim) 
1) I don't share my man
2) a relationship is for two people only
3) it's just not my thing

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I have literally never heard anyone complain because other people are not having threesomes.

And we discuss threesomes a LOT around here. Usually it's people who haven't tried it telling all of us who have just how much our husbands don't respect us. Or how our relationships are doomed. Or how there must be something wrong with us.

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If your 15 you shouldn't be having sex period

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I'm a victim of abuse, but that isn't why I wouldn't have a threesome. I don't think anyone should be made to feel badly about what they aren't open to sexually, no matter what the reason is.

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I would say you've just made the biggest deal over threesomes that I've ever heard, and I'm 29 years old. Maybe you and blowing something that happened to you way out of proportion?

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STDs?!?!

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I don't understand the connections between threesomes and rape. I would imagine rape victims may find different things uncomfortable but I don't think that has anything to do with threesomes specifically?

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I am a rape victim and I would never have a three some. I'm not sure it's because I was raped but more because I don't believe in sharing my husband.

Unnerved by 3somes because of previous rape?

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