Can you have a soulmate but not be satisfied in the bedroom?

Question

I’ve been with my husband for soooo long 10+ years. 
I know he’s my soulmate. I don’t want to be with anyone else. But I’m not sexually satisfied. And yes I’ve had many talks with him over the years. I don’t come or orgasm with sex. Its basic vanilla sex... he’s not into crazy stuff. 
I’ve accepted it so it is what it is. I also don’t know anything else. I’ve had one other person I’ve been with sexually but that was at like 17 years old. And it was one time. We were also interpreted by his older brother who came home earlier than we thought so all in all I haven’t had the best of luck lol

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You don’t have to do crazy stuff just change up what you are you? 
Most woman can’t orgasm from penetration and need clitoral stimulation 
Increase foreplay and make it all about you buy a toys and use it, on yourself try different positions 
Just tell him more time needs to be spent on you

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Im in the same boat right now. I love him but our sex life is gone (not by my choice) and it makes everything else so hard. Some people don't realize that lack of sex is so much deeper than no sex , I feel unwanted , I feel ugly , I feel like it's not fair when I hear about other couples having a normal sex life. 
It definitely makes you question things.

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I would just tell him you would like to orgasm... if you all have a great relationship he should understand this. I mean would he find sex all that enjoyable if he never came? I am not sure what you mean by more “crazy stuff.” Will he give you head? If so he could probably get you to orgasm that way.

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I am in the same boat. I've talked to my husband, but he always makes excuses about it, like he came so quickly because it's been a while, or he's tired. We do have five kids but we definitely need to work on it together. I have definitely had better sex with him before kids, and with other guys. It does make it a lot harder. Especially since I am such a sexual person. Best of luck, my advice is to talk to him.

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It stinks he is not into helping you be satisfied is should be a two way give and take. I would just invest in a vibrator then. If you are emotionally happy that is the most important but you should still feel sexually satisfied too.

Can you have a soulmate but not be satisfied in the bedroom?

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