Moving on to IVF

Well, I've reached a crossroads in this whole journey. After a year of trying and one failed clomid+<a href="">IUI</a> cycle, I got a second opinion last week. The new doctor (who is widely loved and respected) is concerned I have low ovarian reserve/an egg quality issue based on my labs (AMH and day 3 estrogen). He's recommending that we move to <a href="">IVF</a> right away or else he cautions that if we want to have a second child (trying for our first now), it might be virtually impossible by then. I'm worried about the cost and stress of <a href="">IVF</a>, but I'm also so tired of trying and trying with no luck. Has anyone been in a similar situation?  I'd welcome your thoughts. Thanks!