Would you have sex while not in the mood to please your partner?

Question

My bf and I had a very active sex life before I got pregnant. Now at almost 27 weeks I’m usually too tired or just not in the mood. He isn’t one of those guys who wants to have sex every two seconds or anything, but sometimes even when I’m not in the mood at all I’ll just go along with it because I feel like he deserves some pleasure too. He’s been great throughout my pregnancy, and I feel bad when I completely lack my usual sex drive. Does it come back?!

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Yes, because I love my husband. Sex/intimacy is important in a relationship. When I’m pregnant I’m never in the mood and my husband never makes me feel like I have to have sex with him, I do it because I want to please him and make him feel important too.

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Always, I end up enjoying it anyway, And I don’t feel forced to do it, and usually when I’m not in the mood is because I’m in a bad mood in general so it boosts my mood too 😂 as long as he’s not guilting you to do it or whatnot, my hubby always says it’s fine we can do it later but it’s like nah why not 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Even if I’m not in the mood when he first initiates, I’m in the mood within a few minutes of being felt up 😂 
I’d definitely have sex with him here and there even if I wasn’t in the mood though. Id see it like any other selfless thing I do to make his life better, like doing his laundry or grocery shopping/cooking/cleaning the house.

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Nope, I’m not going to force myself through anything I don’t want to do. Sometimes I don’t want a penis inside me, he should respect that.

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😅 I'm the one in the mood more than him. If I'm not he can easily get me in the mood. Our sex life is amazing and he is the best lover I've ever had for many reasons. I never make him feel he has to do anything though. He definitely not use to his gf having a higher sex drive than him.  🤣
With my ex I sure did that a lot mostly cuz he'd bug me until I did. 🤷‍♀️ I did make him get a pocket pussy toy once for I didn't have to as much. 
Definitely need to be honest about it if you rather not have sex. Both people need to be understanding of each other wants/needs. Sex drive can have high and lows, but should go back to normal at some point.

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Like every friggen time

Would you have sex while not in the mood to please your partner?

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