Don’t be this mom

My mom is so overbearing it’s ridiculous. My friend is in the military and is visiting back home. I knew him for 6+ years. We went to see a movie pretty late last night and then rented a hotel room to get high. We didn’t feel like leaving because we paid for the room for the night and we were obviously high so we stayed the night. Now my moms going crazy saying “just because you got dumped doesn’t mean you should sleep with another guy”, yes we slept in the same bed but not under the covers or cuddling, and we definitely didn’t have sex. She’s saying that if I didn’t fuck him then I fucked someone else... ouch. I’ve only been with ONE person. I can’t tell her that it’s because I was high because she doesn’t like weed. She thinks it’s the same as crack or meth. I just wish she would back off because I know I didn’t do anything inappropriate and she’s already insulting me. She’s DEMANDING to know where I was and if I had sex with him and what my relationship is with him like BACK OFF.

And before people start with the “move out”, I am. I joined the army and I leave next month. I’m 20 and she claims her behavior will continue until I’m way past 100. She’s just controlling and annoying.

- I know she cares about me but all her comments about my sex life is extremely unnecessary. Accusing me of having sex with a friend that I’ve known since I was like 13 and then saying that if I’m not having sex with him then I’m having sex with someone else? Even if I was, my sex life is none of her business.