my mom 🤦🏾‍♀️ long rant

i’m a ftm mom and a mom is a first time grandma & she is overly annoying. my baby is only 6 days old and she is trying to take over my position. she didn’t let me change her first diaper. she gave my daughter her first bath without me knowing (i wanted to save that moment for me and her dad) she always in her face, singing to the top of her lungs. she’ll wake up her in the middle of the night to play with her then she’ll give her back and expect me to put her to sleep. she tries to tell me how i need to feed my child or what i need to dress her in. she keeps millions of layers on clothes on her. she complains about me holding her but yet she come and hold her all day long. saying i need to share her. i told her i really can’t spend any time with my own child because she always have her. she try to tell me i don’t show enough love to my own daughter because i don’t talk to her. i told my mom just because you don’t see me talking to her don’t mean i don’t do it. i talk and sing to my baby. when i first got out the hospital she told me i shouldn’t be holding my baby because i had a csection. last night she came and took my baby out her crib and told me to clean the hold house and when i told her i was tried and my incision started to hurt a little, she going to laugh and say tired, what you tired from. i’m looking like i just had a csection 6 days ago & im constantly getting up and down all day long to take care of my child. my baby has been throwing up her milk and my mom going to tell me don’t believe nothing the doctors say because they just read from the book on what to tell us. she posted my daughter on social media before i could even post her and i told her, that’s something you don’t do. she going to say i don’t care that’s my grand baby i’m going to post her. i’m really can’t enjoy my baby because my mama is so over bearing. i honestly can’t take it.