Nervous... Pregnant

Y'all Im so nervous and have no one to talk to. Hubs doesn't know what to say but u will be ok. Which is good. Ok I originally had a dr appt to confirm Th. Went to er today do to bleeding only when pee. I had a uti jan if I get uti/infection I bleed. No pain but ugh shouldn't be bleeding. Now waiting to see my dr. Antibiotics & try not to think of threatening mc. 😐 Im 4wk4d per dr/ultrasound. To early to see anything. No one knows yet. & both our Moms are gone otherwise Id be talkin to them. Never told anyone else this early.