Do any moms find it hard to connect emotionally with their daughters?

I love my daughter dearly, I had her at a beautiful birthing center and breastfed her till she was 19-20months old. I carried her in my cloth wrap and babies her and spoiled her but just sometimes I felt a little absent. Just mentally. Like maybe postpartum depression. I had so much going on in my marriage where we almost divorced and my parents are currently going through a divorce and I went to see a therapist. I want to be the best mom to my 3yr old boy & my 2yr old little girl. She’s the most patient sweet thing ever. So giving, so kind and so gentle. With all my issues I feel deep down maybe I took advantage of her patients and her kindness...I’d set her down after nursing and try and get to all the things then pick her back up for changes and feedings but I can say I truly spent quality time with her because my son is also very demanding and vocal and it gets hectic. I get her and hold her and just kiss her and tell her I love her. And I try. I try to do many things with my kids as far as activities and reading and play...but do any of you get the feeling your daughter looks at you and wants more or needs more of you? But she’s so kind she just waits on mama because mama knows best?.... I just feel so down. I also had a miscarriage just 3weeks ago. Is it time I see a therapist again? Am I a bad mom????😭💔💔💔💔🥺😣😖😔