Lack of communication (rant and I’m confused)

**i think I am going to end our relationship. My gut is telling me something isn’t right. There’s other things that bother me but I feel like you all would say I’m a troll or something. The fathering part isn’t the big issue. It was just on my mind. I apologize I don’t have any friends I can talk to so I started rambling. The main thing that bothers me is his comments on innocence. He says it after I mention how happy my son always is and then we get on the subject of my late fiancé who loved my son as his own and then his bio dad who has never been involved. It’s a very confusing situation.

Sorry if this doesn’t makes sense, I’m just frustrated and unsure of what to do. I have Aspergers and I’m in a serious relationship but it’s long distance. We see each other once every week or two. Usually talk on the phone at night. He said something about selling his home in a few months to move down here and then he said he lost his virginity to me. He also tries to “father” my son and I feel like he’s Kind of pushing boundaries. We’ve been together for 3 months. But like he freaks out thinking my son is going to fall off the couch or something when my son is no where near falling off, literally just sitting on the couch . Then he says things like “you can’t always get what you want.” When my son is crying because he is needing a nap or wanting to sit in the kitchen with me. My mom said she didn’t like him saying that and I felt odd about him saying it too. He’s also made weird comments like “I hope he never loses his innocence” and in the child development program I was in, they said predators make those comments. Am I being paranoid?

I also haven’t heard from him since 2pm. It’s 12am now. Honestly, I feel lonely and other relationships I’ve been in, we would always communicate what we were doing and discuss how our day was going through out the day.

I think I want to break up with him. But I’m not sure if it’s rational to do so. He also said this today while I was meeting my mom in another county to pick up some furniture and it made me feel weird. I’ve been in an abusive relationship before and accusations like this is what started a lot of fights:

*i wasn’t clear in this. I meant to send the gas station text to my mom. She messaged me asking where I was, and I thought I had her text open but it was his so then I said oops sorry lol, and then She called me after I opened up his text so I didnt message him back right away.