What you think about this

I am 6 month pp. My husband and I started having sex but not to the point we both climax. Yesterday I try having sex with my husband and he refuse. Being pp I was confused if he hated my body. I hadn't lost my bell fat really. He said no, he is not in the mood. Into the convo, he stated I should have a boyfriend. Me thinking a boy as friend would be fine but today he clarify a boyfriend boyfriend to have sex with.

I don't know if he joking or not but I only want to have sex with me