A year wasted

My ex and I dated for a year. It was a VERY happy healthy relationship up until we got into a small fight while he was away, due to miscommunication which was 100% my fault, and I did apologized for acting the way I did. I had been struggling with my mental health reading the whole situation wrong. When he came home after not seeing me for 2 months, he blew up on me. He then decided the best way to go about ending things was to mentally beat me down with all of my flaws, tell me the way I life my life is careless (I quit my job without talking to him about it), he “admitted ” he had been unhappy with me for months (I know for a fact he was saying that to hurt me), lead me on for a week (promising me we weren’t going to break up all because he wanted to do it in person), wasted 2 hours of my time sitting around his house, dragging me to Safeway with him to run his errands, and then finally broke up with me in his driveway before going inside his house and leaving me standing there.

This was a month ago, and I’m still waiting to give his clothes and a few items back. Despite him being in town until tomorrow night, he still hasnt messaged me to get his stuff. Pretty sure he’s ghosting me. I’m waiting another week before I throw it all in the trash.