My boyfriend's son asked for advice. How did I do?
My boyfriend's son asked if he could talked to me after he got home from school and I said okay. He told me he's confused on if he's gay or not. I asked what he meant and he said he likes girls, but he has a crush on a boy. I told him that sounded like bisexual. He then starts to say he's confused on that because he's not attracted to all guys. Just this particular guy. And that he's always liked girls and he doesn't know if bisexual is the right word to describe him because he mainly likes girls but only likes one boy. So I said "Sexuality is fluid. There's a whole spectrum of what you can be, but you don't have to label yourself right away or ever. You're 14 so you have plenty of time to decide who you are and what you like. You can like 100 girls and 1 boy and that would be fine. There's nothing wrong with you. Don't stress over it. You'll figure yourself out. Just take it one crush at a time". That was at least a gist of it. He thanked me and said he feels I'm the only one he can ever talk to. I said he could always talk to me and just playfully teased and said "So tell me about this crush? Does he have a name". He blushed and we talked for about an hour. I hope I gave good advice. I'm not apart of the lgbtq+ community so I hope what I said was at least a little helpful.
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