What would you do?

I’m posting this twice. Just trying to get a fast response so I’ll take down the one that doesn’t get the first response.

Okay so my bf has this old friends. She’s gorgeous and his type. The way he talks about her Ik he is attracted to her personality and looks... aka a crush. She has a bf and lives far away.

It bothers me tho. He said things like “omg I love her she’s so awesome I wanna hang w her soon I haven’t in forever “ once saying how her bf is an asshole but “I guess he’s cool not my fav”

Things like that. We were on a date when he checked his snap maps casually. Sees she was in the area and was like “Aw I didn’t know she was in the area dang!”

And he’s inviting her to his grad. Idk if she will come. I kinda want her to to see how they act around each other. It’s just weird. He’s never brought up one of his friends this much (before I’ve met them) except his roommate John cuz they’re bffs who hang everyday.

And he also usualllly talks kinda negative about those ppl. Like not completely maybe just one small negative thing. But this girls seems above everyone else the way he talks.

Just hurts to know. Like I’m 95% positive he likes her. And I don’t want to break up with him cuz of it. 1. I’m not 100% just a feeling and based on some small actions. 2. Ik he loves me and talks about our future lots. 3. Ik he won’t cheat. I do question if she ever becomes single, what he would do. Would he talk to her more? Try to hang with her more? Dump me eventually?? Just something else to be insecure ab.

I want to bring this up to him. Maybe make a passive aggressive comment next time he brings her up saying like “oh are you excited to see your crush?” Or something like that. Ugh I’m just so annoyed with him.

I don’t want to be with someone who has eyes for another girl. But is that realistic?? Do all boys or people have eyes for others while they’re in a happy relationship???